過去 已經過去 眼前 你要珍惜 Ham~~如果她願意
替我愛你 就讓她替我跟你鬥嘴鬧情緒
聽你說她很細心 善解人意 她真的比我更適合你
讓她愛你 就讓她替我陪你熱鬧或孤寂
抱歉的話別再提 就到這裡 我真心願意讓她替我愛你
2008年4月5日 星期六
dun be so shocked. i am not in any relationship yet. not attached too. so stop giving that face !!
this question actually popped out for quite a while. quite a number of my friends are having relationships now [either is present tense, present continuous tense, past tense, future tense...] and some of them really like to consult me about their relationships [ok, i admitted i am gossipy, i love to ask people about their romances, i love to read romances, but i dun have any experience in it... so dun expect perfect answer from me, it's juz suggestions...]
after listening to different romances, looking at different couples, this question eventually appeared. to me, love is the feeling that you really want to be with someone, willing to spend the rest of your life with him/her, willing to accept everything about him/her, no matter in which aspects, no matter good or bad. love is respect and care for each other...
maybe i am juz innocent. i have idealized love too much. it may also becoz i have been raised in a full of love family, where my parent really respect each other and love each other. i actually believe tt according to my expectation toward love, i will never get married... well, shall wait and see. if not, i will juz start adoption when i was 30 yr old.
guess love is not juz about control. it shan't based on pity or the sense of being needed. it has to be a two way relationship. it will be boring too if the only common thing you have is your interest... [we used to joke that if 2 ppl who really love music and get married, the way they show their love towards ach other will be : i love Beethoven and his Symphony No.8, but I love you more!!]
think a perfect relation should be one that the couple can cover for each other's weakness and to make themselves better. it doesn't matter whether others think you are matched, as long as you enjoy it... anyway, you won't know if you are suitable for the one unless you try...
dunno why am i typing this. maybe have heard too much romances by now. sounds like love expert writing research papers =.=" wish i can stay this rational even when i were in love.
quote something the Mavis Monkey Army said before: You Never Know ~
*帶著面具的小丑下台一鞠躬*
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